Good Openers:In our fast paced world, having a few good openers is essential if you plan on being successful in seduction. That’s because a lot of the time when you’re going about your day, you’ll see a beautiful woman and your mind will go absolutely blank. Having a few good openers prepared in advance will allow you to go in and open the conversation without even thinking. This is especially important for guys that have approach anxiety because the longer you think about it, the least likely you are to approach a girl.
Before we dive into what a good and bad opener is, let’s go over the purpose of an opener. The purpose of an opener is to simply start a conversation. It’s the ice-breaker, the attention getter that will get you and the girl into a conversation. Usually openers are only a few seconds long, after that you’re into routines, stories and games. The big fallacy that most guys follow is that they try to cram everything into an opener. They try to build attraction, qualify, build comfort and attraction all at the same time… Stop! Just say something that starts a conversation and THEN take it from there.
So what makes a good opener?
Well for the reason above, simply saying “Hi” does work. Sure it’s not very original, but what really matters is what follows after. In fact, there was a group of pick up artists that went out to prove that openers really didn’t matter so they had a little event where they opened all night with the strangest, most ludicrous openers imaginable. You’d have a guy go up to a girl and say: “Hey I lost my friend” and then start talking from there. That was relatively normal, but others such as “Hi, I’m an alien from outer space and I’m here to abduct you” worked just as well.
In essence, anything you say can be a good opener as long as it captures attention.
Here are some of the best openers:
- Hey there (not very classy, I know)
- Hey I have a quick question before I get back to my friends… Who lies more? Men or women ? (overused)
- Did you see the two girls fighting outside? Yeah, they were fighting over a guy.
- Hi, I’m from (interesting place) and I’m just wondering if people are friendly here.
I’d love to hear from the community. If you have a good opener, then please add it in the comments.
